Why is this so hard?
Ughhhh!!!! Have you guys noticed how hard it is to love your own self?
Like every single day you have to get up and like a workout remind yourself that today you have to choose yourself over everyone else, every single day it has to be struggle to look in the mirror and remind yourself that hey you are as valuable as any other person on this earth. How are you suppose to do that? How are you suppose to move on in life if you are stuck in the circle of torture every single day? When does it get easier?
I am sure that at some point in life you all of you must have asked the questions irrespective of what problems you faced. So what’s the solution? Is there a pill out there that can stop all this and give you an instant solution? Obviously not. I am no expert in this whole life and love business but over the time life itself teaches some things to you and when you get it, it all works out.
“When does it get easier?”
This is the biggest question I have asked myself time and again, and why not nobody likes to feel as if loving their own selves should be a big deal.
Well the simple answer is loving yourself is just like trying to lose weight. It doesn’t happen overnight or suddenly or through a magic pill. Just like losing weight loving yourself requires 100% commitment. Where you will have to workout every single day, eat clean and think clean, cut out carbs and negativity, and focus on the proteins and positivity. And the best part?…… there is no cheat day allowed.
And I know you might be thinking is all this effort worth it or not? Well to be honest if you have to even ask this question then you are the first person who needs to do this. Of course you are the worth the effort. Think about it this way through all the years that you are going to live, you are going to have your own company for a very long time and do you want to be with a person who doesn’t even like their reflection? I guess not. I hope that answers the whether you are worth it or not.
Self-love comes naturally to many people and you can see that they have their confidence, intelligence and a pizzazz personality. And I think everyone deserves to live with that kind of novelty. So don’t be afraid of anything. Go ahead and commit yourself to this extremely rewarding journey. It might be easy for some or difficult for some but it will be amazing for all.
I hope to see all of you out there succeed in this mission. Because you are beautiful and you deserve the greatest that this world has to offer which is love; love for yourself for family for friends even for strangers.
Have a good weekend all of you.